Notes
- 1 Judy Allen and Dyan Sheldon, eds., Picking on Men Again, London: Arrow Books, 1986, p.88.
- 2 Regina Joseph, "In Defence of Marriage", Sunday Punch (Lagos), May 22, 1983, p.7.
- 3 Harold Courlander, ed., A Treasury of African Folklore, New York: Crown Publishers, 1975, pp.362-363.
- 4 Judy Allen and Dyan Sheldon, op.cit., p.35.
- 5 Andrea Dworkin, Right-wing Women, London: The Women's Press, 1983, p.223.
- 6 Carol Hanisch, "Men's Liberation", in Redstockings, Feminist Revolution, New York: Random House, 1978, p.72.
- 7 Denyse Plummer, "Woman is Boss", on the cassette Who is the Boss?, Trinidad & Tobago: Multi Media Limited, 1988, CP 3889.
- 8 Interview by Rolake Omonubi, Sunday Tribune (Ibadan), January 22, 1984, p.11.
- 9 Esther Vilar, The Manipulated Man, London: Abelard-Schuman, 1972, p.10.
- 10 Ibid., p.39.
- 11 Sigmund Freud, Character and Culture, New York: Crowell-Collier, 1963, pp.37-38.
- 12 Jonathon Green, ed., Says Who?, Harlow, U.K.: Longman, 1988, p.598.
- 13 Robert Ardrey, African Genesis, London: Fontana, 1967, p.162.
- 14 Bunmi Fadase, "The 60th Birthday Party that Went with a Bang!", The Punch (Lagos), May 2, 1983, p.4.
- 15 William Ross Wallace, in Oxford Dictionary of Quotations, London, OUP, 1964, p.557.
- 16 Judy Allen and Dyan Sheldon, op.cit., p.82.
- 17 Bunmi Fadase, "Watch out Girls, The Men are Getting Liberated", The Punch (Lagos), August 8, 1983, p.4.
- 18 Chinweizu, ed., Voices from Twentieth-Century Africa, London: Faber and Faber, 1988, p.249.
- 19 Miriam Lichtheim, ed., Ancient Egyptian Literature, Vol.3, Berkeley: U. of California Press, 1980, p.178.
- 20 Bunmi Fadase, op.cit.
- 21 Judy Allen and Dyan Sheldon, op.cit., p.114.
- 22 Ibid.
- 23 Marvin Harris, Cows, Pigs, Wars and Witches, New York: Vintage, 1978, p.72.
- 24 Chieka Ifemesia, Traditional Humane Living Among the Igbo, Enugu: Fourth Dimension, (n.d.) p.57.
- 25 Helene Deutsch, The Psychology of Women, Vol. II, New York: Bantam, 1973, pp.329-330.
- 26 Karen Payne, ed., Between Ourselves, London: Picador, 1984, pp.360-364.
- 27 Ibid., p.365.
- 28 Ibid.
- 29 Ibid., p.25.
- 30 Bunmi Fadase, op.cit.
- 31 Willard Trask, ed., The Unwritten Song, Vol. II, New York: Macmillan, 1967, p.xxvi.
- 32 Ntozake Shange, For Colored Girls, New York: Macmillan, 1977, p.39.
- 33 Judy Allen and Dyan Sheldon, op.cit., p.18.
- 34 Jan Knappert, ed., An Anthology of Swahili Love Poetry, Berkeley: U. of California Press, 1972, p.87.
- 35 Ambrose Bierce, The Enlarged Devil's Dictionary, ed. by E.J. Hopkins, Harmondsworth: Penguin, 1983, p.215.
- 36 A.K. Adams, ed., The Home Book of Humorous Quotations, New York: Dodd, Mead, 1969, p.210.
- 37 Quoted by Herb Caen, in The San Francisco Chronicle, August 20, 1980, p.35.
- 38 Barbra Streisand, "Woman in Love", in Barbra Streisand, A Collection of Greatest Hits... And More, CBS 465845 4.
- 39 "Moonlight Love Song", by the Ora of Bendel State, Nigeria, tr. by Oje Odihirin, in C.O.D. Ekwensi, ed., The Festac Anthology of New Nigerian Writings, Lagos: Federal Ministry of Information, 1977, p.46.
- 40 Jan Knappert, op.cit.
- 41 F.P.A.'s Book of Quotations, New York: Funk and Wagnalls, 1952, p.864.
- 42 Judy Allen and Dyan Sheldon, op.cit., p.140.
- 43 Jorge Amado, Dona Flor and Her Two Husbands, tr. by Harriet de Onís, New York: Bantam, 1971, p.236.
- 44 From "The Lala-Song of the Village Girls", in Charlotte and Wolf Leslau, eds., African Poems and Love Songs, Mount Vernon, N.Y.: Peter Pauper Press, 1970, pp.20-22.
- 45 Judy Allen and Dyan Sheldon, op.cit., p.74.
- 46 Ibid., p.75.
- 47 From "Song of the Bridesmaids", in Charlotte and Wolf Leslau, op.cit., pp.6-7.
- 48 "The Groom Said 'No'", The Weekly Star (Enugu), March 15, 1981, p.9.
- 49 Joseph L. Henderson, "Ancient Myths and Modern Man", in C.G. Jung, ed., Man and His Symbols, New York: Dell, 1968, p.127.
- 50 Judy Allen and Dyan Sheldon, op.cit., p.88.
- 51 Fred Metcalf, ed., The Penguin Dictionary of Modern Humorous Quotations, Harmondsworth: Penguin, 1986, p.162.
- 52 Livia, wife of Emperor Augustus Caesar of Rome.
- 53 Judy Allen and Dyan Sheldon, op.cit., p.117.
- 54 BBC World Service, September 23, 1982.
- 55 Anthony King, "Mrs Thatcher: Matching Up to Princely Standards", in The Daily Telegraph (London), October 6, 1988, p.12.
- 56 Gail Sheehy, "The Bendix Furor — Woman's Untold Story", The San Francisco Chronicle, October 13, 1980, p.6.
- 57 Mary Soames, Clementine Churchill, London: Cassell, 1979, jacket blurb.
- 58 Ibid., p.236.
- 59 Ibid., p.498.
- 60 Judy Allen and Dyan Sheldon, op.cit., p.45.
- 61 Isidore Okpewho, ed., The Heritage of African Poetry, London: Longman, 1985, p.162.
- 62 Karen Payne, op.cit., p.234.
- 63 Andrea Dworkin, op.cit., p.216.
- 64 Quoted in Chinweizu, The West and the Rest of Us, Lagos: Pero Press, 1987, p.242.
- 65 Karen Payne, op.cit., p.87.
- 66 Ibid., pp.87, 88.
- 67 Kowus Bisi-Williams, "Why Women Flirt", Vanguard (Lagos), March 17, 1989, p.12.
- 68 Gloria Ogunbadejo, "The Human Angle", Vanguard (Lagos), February 28, 1989, p.5.
- 69 Robert Ardrey, op.cit., p.138.
- 70 Judy Allen and Dyan Sheldon, op.cit., p.168.
- 71 Bunmi Fadase, "Talk about 'Battered-Men'", The Punch (Lagos), July 11, 1983, p.4.
- 72 Karen Payne, op.cit., p.3.
- 73 Ibid., p.109.
- 74 Ibid., p.239.
- 75 Quoted in South magazine (London), December 1984, p.19.
- 76 "The Cynic in Mrs. America", in "Jeremy Campbell's Washington Letter", The Standard (London) March 10, 1982, p.7.
- 77 Miriam Lichtheim, op.cit., p.195.
- 78 Judy Allen and Dyan Sheldon, op.cit., p.90.
- 79 Who Said What When?, London: Bloomsbury, 1988, p.271.
- 80 Judy Allen and Dyan Sheldon, op.cit., p.92.
- 81 Ibid., p.171.
- 82 Gbemi Egunjobi, "Why Do Men Fear Commitment?", Vanguard (Lagos), September 5, 1989, p.5.
- 83 Judy Allen and Dyan Sheldon, op.cit., p.86.
- 84 Ibid., p.89.
- 85 Gilgamesh, tr. by John Gardner and John Maier, New York: Knopf, 1984, pp.149, 152, 153.
- 86 Homer, The Odyssey, tr. by E.V. Rieu, Harmondsworth: Penguin, 1970, p.92.
- 87 Ibid., p.164.
- 88 Ibid.
- 89 Bernard Soulie, Japanese Erotism, tr. by Evelyn Rossiter, Fribourg-Geneva, Productions Liber SA, 1981, p.68.
- 90 Chinweizu, ed., Voices from Twentieth-Century Africa, London: Faber and Faber, 1988, p.154.
- 91 Bunmi Fadase, "Men Who Marry Younger Wives", The Punch (Lagos), February 27, 1984, p.4.
- 92 Betty Friedan, The Feminine Mystique, Harmondsworth: Penguin, 1965, p.237.
- 93 Fred Metcalf, op.cit., p.158.
- 94 F.P.A.'s Book of Quotations, New York: Funk and Wagnalls, 1952, p.859.
- 95 National Concord (Lagos), p.1.
- 96 Kim Fletcher, "Behind Every Bad Man?", The Sunday Telegraph (London), December 31, 1989, p.21.
- 97 Esther Vilar, The Polygamous Sex, tr. by Sophie Wilkins, London: W.H. Allen, 1976, pp.86-87.
- 98 Interview by Charles Okechukwu, The Guardian (Lagos), November 1, 1987, p.4.
- 99 Betty Friedan, op.cit., p.29.
- 100 Bloomsbury Thematic Dictionary of Quotations, London: Bloomsbury, 1988, p.134.
- 101 Lagos Life, September 14-20, 1989, p.2.
- 102 Semantha Norman, "Why All Men Under 35 Should be Locked Up", Cosmopolitan (London), August 1989, p.64.
- 103 Andrea Dworkin, op.cit., p.116.
- 104 Ibid.
- 105 Ibid., p.117.
- 106 Ibid., p.118.
- 107 Ibid.
- 108 Debbie Raymond, "A Man Has The Right to See a Naked Body", The Independent (London), July 1, 1989, p.14.
- 109 Judy Allen and Dyan Sheldon, op.cit., p.53.
- 110 Quoted in Chinweizu, Invocations and Admonitions, Lagos: Pero Press, 1986, p.65.
- 111 Variant of "Shark's Love", Ibid.
- 112 "Carter Statement on Draft Registration", The New York Times, February 9, 1980, p.8.
- 113 BBC World Service, February (?), 1989.